Sex muscles-how to use them

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SEX MUSCLES-ever heard of them ? Maybe some of you have or maybe not!  Remember there are muscles used every day that you don't know are working. From the bottom of your feet to the top of your head and all between.

Today we'll talk about the mighty "KEGEL muscle". Kegel exercises help to strengthen the muscles that help you in bed-that's right SEX-ha ha haaaaa! Diana Kelly for Shape.com wrote an article that I'll give you more about later. This section about "kegel exercises" is part of that-enjoy.

Not only are kegels good for our lady parts, if you put your pelvic floor muscles through a strength-training routine as regularly as you do your arms, you will likely have stronger (and more regular) orgasms. Kegel exercises work the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles-the ones responsible for the contractions you feel when you climax.
"Strengthening these will 'tighten your grip' during intercourse and generate more intense contractions, boosting your overall experience," says Traci Statler, Ph.D., medical advisory board member for Lelo and Intimina. And it stands to reason that if orgasms are, ahem, coming easily, your interest in sex (and sex with your guy) is bound to increase. He'll enjoy it too: As you get stronger, that contracting can enhance the intensity for him, plus squeezing may help delay premature ejaculation.

For beginners, Statler recommends tightening your PC muscles as you breathe in (for more detailed instructions, see how to do kegels), holding the contraction for 5 to 10 seconds, then releasing for the same amount of time. Work up to 10 reps at a time, and aim for three sets a day.
Once you have built up endurance, you can step up your training routine with lightweight exercise balls. "Inserting and retaining the device will stimulate the PC muscle to contract, thereby generating increased strength and endurance," Statler says.

She recommends Lelo's Luna Beads (available in different sizes and weights) or, for a true beginner, Intimina's Laselle Kegel Exercisers. Insert the lightest weight and get acclimated to it for 5 to 10 minutes-simply retaining it will cause your PC muscles to contract.
Work up to two to three times a day, and never keep the balls in for longer than 30 minutes at a time.
You should start noticing results in about six to weight weeks if you're performing these exercises regularly.
If you're not sure, ask your partner if he feels a difference - then just smile!

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SEX or not

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Let's talk about sex........or NOT. Mommiefriend at Babble had 20 ways that women use to say no to sex. Have you used any of these....or men-have you heard any of these ? Let us know.

 *SCREECH!* Let’s get real. Moms + Sex = Not that often.
It’s math; you can’t argue with math.
OK, so maybe you and your partner have engaged in coital hotness every night for the last 8 years and you have 7 kids that haven’t slowed down your collective libidos. Well, this post isn’t for you sex kittens.

For the rest of you mamas who dream of steamy sexy sleep every chance you get; I’m on your tired team.
And yes Dr. Ruth, moms know sex is important to maintaining intimacy in a relationship blah, blah, blah. Moving right along…

If women have needs then I gots needs of a different variety. I’ve got needs that involve quiet, wine, reality TV, laughter, gossip magazines, and Let's just snuggle Is there anything better than cozying up to your partner and falling asleep? Spooning need not always lead to forking pretty sexy things.
 Am I really so different that the rest of the moms out there? The answer is no; I know because I asked.

It’s not that moms don’t enjoy sex because that’s not it at all. We love us some chocolate cake too, but we’re not about to bake ourselves one at the end of a long day. You dig?
I polled the female masses (that’s what he said) and collected the most popular excuses moms use to get out of sex.
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1. I haven't shaved

Just think of our legs as a cactus, the spikes are there for a reason.

2. I think you owe me an apology

Maybe you don't know what you did wrong, but we sure do.

3. I'm, ahem, ungroomed

Before the flower gets plucked, the flower gets groomed.

4. Why do you think she looked at me that way?

Women spend much of their time worrying about all sorts of seemingly meaningless things. There's no chance of sex until we clear out all the mental cobwebs.

5. I have cramps

Cramps have never, and will never, feel sexy.

6. I just took a shower

I was too dirty so I took a shower and now I'm just so clean. Let's not ruin it with sex.

7. I think I'm ovulating

Depending on what side of the fertile fence you're on, this one might be a problem.

8. I'm PMSing

I'm hungry, emotional, bloated, and exhausted. Sex sounds about as appealing as a teeth cleaning right now...but you can be a doll and fetch me a candy bar.
9. I have to get up early tomorrow

Somewhere in the back of our minds we think sex takes a long time. It doesn't, but we use this excuse anyway.
10. Seriously?

Some days are just bad days. You've listened to us drone on about our jerk boss and our headache for the last hour hoping there was sex at the end of this black rainbow. There wasn't

11. Can it wait until after Real Housewives?

Whoa, major blow to the male ego, but we can't possibly focus on anything until we know if Vicki and Tamra are on the outs. Priorities people.
12. The kids are awake

You know what's completely unsexy? The sound of our kids' voices 12 feet away.

13. We'll wake the kids

Who are we kidding? You know as well as I you can be quiet as a mating church mouse when you want to be.

14. Don't you just want to talk?

Sometimes it is just nice to talk. If we haven't seen you in what feels like an eternity, don't make our first encounter a grabby grabfest. Let's make it gabfest instead!


15. I haven't taken a shower

Dirty girl = No dirty girl in the bedroom.

16. I'm so tired

What do you get when you take a woman who works really hard, worries really hard, and takes it all really personally? One tired mother.
17. I have a headache

My husband swears a dose of good lovin' can cure a headache...so can 400mg of Ibuprofen.
18. I'm so fat right now

We know you don't care if we're fat right now but we care. We really, really care.

19. I'm too cold

Might body heat solve this problem? Probably, but still.
20. Let's just snuggle

Is there anything better than cozying up to your partner and falling asleep? Spooning need not always lead to forking
Of course there could be more but men you have to understand that she will not always feel like sweating and groaning and moaning and evil-laughing and bouncing and moving and being touched and fondled and groaped and licked and kissed and hugged and ...........well you get it.
Give her a break and watch tv with her or read or play video games or just go to sleep.

Catch you later alligator...........on the Nile crocodile !

Phone Sex-more than talk

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Linda had called Bruce to check out a movie with her on Saturday. She went to his apartment to pick him up. While she was waiting, she started reading Cosmopolitan while waiting for Bruce to get ready. (yes I know that sounds like the opposite of what happens on a date & yes we know that Cosmopolitan is usually a girl's mag) we tease him about it but he likes it soooo...He's cool.
Anyway,she was reading about phone sex. You know-when we start getting hot from words and imagination.

Phone sex is the perfect way to make a carnal connection when you and your man are apart. And while the thought of it may leave you speechless, tantalizing talk isn't as tricky as you think. Just use your erotic imagination. Share your steamy desires, describe details from your favorite fantasy or tell him, step-by-step, what you wish you were doing to him.

Remember, aural sex isn't all talk and no action. Up the erotic ante by simultaneously masturbating. Explain to each other exactly what you're doing ("I'm tracing circles on my inner thigh") and how it's feeling ("I'm getting so wet"). He'll go nuts. Giving good phone is a lot easier -- and more fun -- if you get into a lusty mood before you dial his digits. Lie back and envision a supercharged bedroom scenario with your guy. Start stroking yourself, and when your pulse is pounding, give him a call. Put on some sheer sexy nighties to put YOU in the mood.


Since this is your first time starting sexy phone speak, you might be a little tongue-tied. But don't feel forced to say something XXX-rated. Just chat with him as you normally would and ease into a more intimate exchange by saying something as simple as "I wish you were lying next to me." Or lift his libido by reminding him of an incredibly hot sack session you had together or were imagining you could have 2gether. You're guaranteed to get a rise out of him with a little phone sex-so give it a try.

If you aren't comfortable initiating a kinky conversation, suggest your boyfriend take the lead. Close your eyes and concentrate on every wanton word. As you touch yourself, fantasize that you're feeling his tantalizing fingers caressing your skin. If at first you feel shy, just moan or sigh while he narrates a naughty story. As the encounter escalates, you may be very surprised at the frisky phrases that pop out of your mouth.

Sex life wrecked-5 things that could do it

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We were talking the other day about how some things that happen during sex can throw your whole game off. Then Sheila was reading Mydailymoment.com and saw an article about the same thing. We wanted to share it with you. Tell us what you think.

What do you think about these? Ever been a game stopper for you?
Is your hot and steamy love life feeling more lukewarm these days? You might think you're doing everything right, but there are sneaky sensual snafus that could be destroying your sex life. While most of them are easily fixed or avoided, you need to identify where you went (or are going) wrong. These five things could be ruining your sex life, so sit down, read up and get ready to light that fire once again.



1. Getting Grossed Out - Let's face it - the human body doesn't always produce the sexiest smells, areas of hair or secretions. If you flinch at the hint of a little B.O. down there, an untrimmed bikini line or the thought of bodily fluids touching you anywhere, you could be turning your partner off, or even worse, offending him or her.
There are a few ways you can overcome that - only have intercourse in or right after a shower, turn the lights off to avoid looking at things you don't like and keep plenty of towels or tissues on hand for liquid mishaps. Remember, sex=moving,touching,licking, so you should work on embracing the fact that you're going to get sweaty, squished and crumpled and move on.
Maybe you have not been working out the way you said you would and your body is not in the best shape. To make sure it doesn't stay that way-workout the right way-then get ready to show it off.

2. Being Afraid to Experiment - Instead of laughing in his or her face the next time your partner suggests a sexy cowgirl getup or edible underwear, give it a try. You could find it silly, but it may increase the pleasure your partner experiences and rejecting him or her could kill the mood. Unless it's something you morally object to or might cause you harm, go for it. Who knows -- you might even discover that being "Nurse Betty" is your thing.

3. Not Knowing What You Want - Reading minds is not the easiest way to tell people what you want. If you don't know what buttons to push or what gets you in mood, it can be nearly impossible for your partner to do so. If you have a hard time reaching orgasm, spend some time solo exploring yourself and experimenting with toys to learn what works for you. Pay attention during sex and take a mental note of what moves or positions you like best and what you dislike. Plan a lesson for your dude and see if he does his homework.

4. Being Embarrassed - What woman hasn't almost screamed in horror when looking at her thighs in the mirror, or had an absolute mental breakdown when passing gas in front of someone? When these things happen in the bedroom, it can feel like the end of the world. It's important to realize that once men turn on their sex-brain, very little can turn it off.

They are so focused on wanting you and getting down ,that they're unlikely to be fazed or even notice that little jiggle under your arm or that you forgot to do laundry and are wearing your granny panties. Sometimes the human body will get the best of you, and your period will start early or you may let out a noise closer to a "moo" than a moan.     
Laugh it off instead of freaking out, and your man will too. If you're so focused on what he could notice, you won't be able to enjoy the task at hand.

5. Falling Into a Boring Routine - Do you have a standing calendar appointment for getting naughty? While it's important to make time in your schedules for sex, arranging a set day and time for it is one of the quickest ways to squash your sex life. Not only is it boring, but you also may find that you aren't in the mood at that time or have to "cancel" your appointment and wait a whole week for the opportunity again.

Come home early from work and greet your partner at the door in lingerie or arrange for a sexy night under the stars and camp out in the backyard. Anything out of the ordinary, even if it may seem simple, can pump up the pleasure factor. Get some nice romantic/love movies-videos to spice up the day.
It doesn't matter if you've been married for decades or just started seeing someone, these phobias, fears and oversights can begin to cause serious problems for your relationship if not addressed. If you can relate to one or more of these sexual slip-ups, there are things you can do to turn your situation around and get back in the saddle.

Spend time looking at yourself in the mirror or photographs of yourself and focusing on the things you see that you like. The more comfortable you are with your own body, the more you can relax during sex. Talk to your partner. Most men aren't mind readers, and if you're struggling with a sexual issue, he may not notice until you tell him.
Be open and honest about what you are feeling, what you want, what you dislike and how you can both work together to improve the situation.        

Flirting-Dating Tips

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Today we'll talk about something that we know the ladies do more than the men.

FLIRTING - yes we know about flirting 1st hand from Laura and Stephanie because every time they write us-they talk about how they get the men to look at them.

Many people believe that the art of flirting is something that you either have or you don’t. This isn’t true at all. The art of flirting is something, which can be mastered by anyone with an interest in learning how to flirt-most of the time just catching the eye of your "prey". 
It’s a practice-makes-perfect skill, which is learned from the inside out. Everyone masters the art of flirting differently, but there are some basics of the art of flirting which might help you to find the flirt within and bring her out to play.

The first thing to know about the art of flirting is that it’s something, which can be done by anyone. You don’t need to be the most attractive person in the room (and beauty is a subjective quality anyway) and you don’t have to be the smartest, most athletic or most outgoing either. 
The art of flirting is designed to bring out the wonderful qualities that are unique about you and to let them shine so that others can be drawn to them. In this way, the art of flirting begins from the inside. Knowing the qualities you like about yourself and using them as a basis, the art of flirting is an art of quiet confidence.

But you want to know what to do to let others know that you’re a terrific person right?
The art of flirting is an art, which is primarily non-verbal. They say that the eyes are the keys to the soul and you should use yours as a starting point for the art of flirting.
Have you ever been glancing around a room, bored and disinterested in what was going on around you when a stranger caught your gaze and held it for a few moments? For most people, this causes the heart to race and the mind to start whirring, wondering what it was about them that caught someone’s attention.

 People are drawn to others who are attracted to them and you can convey your interest at many levels with the different types of looks you give to people. The art of flirting will incorporate many different types of gazes.
If you are in a public setting and just want to catch the eye of a stranger, meeting their gaze and holding it for a few seconds then letting it go followed by meeting it again is the best method. This quickly conveys that you are interested in flirting with them and you will be able to tell from their reaction whether or not they share your interest.
 More aggressive flirting is done through giving the object of flirtation a look, which says, "I am thinking Sexy dirty things about you". Sometimes this is done with a lingering gaze, sometimes with an up-and-down-the-body glance and sometimes with a stare, which suggests that you are hungry and looking to devour them.




In addition to eye contact, the art of flirting makes use of other types of Sexy body language. Positioning your body in such a manner that shows you are open to communication is crucial to the art of flirting. Touching the other person is also a big part of the art of flirting, but it should be done cautiously.

You should read the other person’s body language to determine whether they are welcoming the signals you are sending out. You’ll be able to tell if it’s appropriate to touch their arm or lean your leg against theirs while talking. The art of flirting consists of a combination of conveying your intentions while reading the signals of the other person. A successful combination of these two things which stems from a foundation of casual confidence in your own self worth makes the art of flirting enjoyable and fun.
Okay guys now it's your turn. Tell us how well you did. Maybe you will luch out and meet Laura & Stephanie-ha that would be great ! And when the flirting works buy from our collection of sexy couple’s adult toys and get free shipping on your order

How to find,attract your love-108 ways

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How to get a date that works

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Glad you came back. Dan and I were talking yesterday and this was part of our conversation.

Have you ever looked at your friends who have long term partners and wondered why you haven't got that in your life? Do you ever wonder when Mr. or Ms. Right will come along and what the hold up is? Have you ever thought if possibly you're doing something that could be keeping them at bay?
Conventional online dating in the new millennium is vastly different, thanks to the internet however still very much similar as it has always been for singles. Take a look at some of the more common mistakes singles make when starting to date new people or what you have done. Perhaps you're making some of these mistakes?

Lets assess your appearance and personal hygiene? Take some time to get ready for your date. Clean your teeth. Refresh your breath. When you chat with your date, bad breath will surely be a turn off.

SHOWER! Men, be sure to use deodorant.

Ladies, don't go overboard on the makeup or perfume.

Select a pleasant looking outfit to wear and be sure it is suitable for the date. You wouldn't wear an Armani suit when on a picnic, and you wouldn't wear ug boots to the opera.

Make sure you are well mannered When we are dating and trying to talk,there are fewer turn-offs than a date who piles their dinner into his or her mouth or curses. Females who make snide remarks and chat about others during conversation is in pretty poor taste.

Male singles who don't hold doors open and other basic courtesies will find themselves getting the cold shoulder at the end of the night. "Please" "thanks" and "excuse me" are important phrases to employ,they show your date that you are a respectful person.

Don't chat constantly, let your date have some breathing space. Exposing your life history in day one? Blabbering on regarding esoteric knowledge that may not interest him?

Everyone likes to be listened to. Your date is no exception! Whilst you may think the story of your life to be very fascinating, odds on that generally the first couple of dates, that guy probably isn't all that interested in hearing every detail of your life in high school. That lovely little women most likely wont share your deep and enduring interest with vintage belt buckles, either.

Singles should talk openly and ask each other light hearted questions. Touch on these subjects but don't harp on them. Be sure that your date has ample time to talk as well. These tips always apply whether you are dating in person or you are in a private chat via an online dating service.

Make sure you pay attention when she is talking to you "Uh huh," "yep," "Oh, right..." - these remarks are a death knell to the start of a friendship. This implies that you're distracted, not giving full attention to your date's conversation. No one enjoys being on the sidetracks of someone's thoughts, especially when they're dating. LISTEN to him-her. Make remarks that show you are giving him-her full attention. "Really, your boss said THAT?" "and, where DID you decide to go?"

If you met through an online dating service, do you really look like that picture you uploaded? This is a HUGE and frequent error many singles make when using dating services. They upload a photo from five years or have a studio shot done and wonder why their date looks let down or shocked when they meet for the first date.

We all want to appear at our very best and present the best possible appearance however uploading out-dated and unrealistic photos is not the answer. Take or find a few photos that truly represent how you look RIGHT NOW. Don't just let what is actually a work of fiction as fact.

Are you posing? Acting arrogant and conceited? If you consistently pull that large roll of money out,chat about your amazing achievements in sport,your job and life or take too much time removing that pocket compact to maintain your mascara, you're going down a wrong track. Many singles dislike a flash date. Try to be a little more modest.

Don't be TOO modest! No one wants to reassure their date all night. "I honestly hope you think I look okay!," "I'm such a huge clumsy galah!" and similar are NOT good conversation starters or serious relationship starters. Show a little self-confidence however don't be arrogant and conceited about it.

Not always a good idea to focus on sex too quickly? Sex is the best way to kill a budding romance. Guys,when you try to bed her too quickly, you're sending her the signal that all she is, is a convenient body to be enjoyed to satisfy your desire-that you're not really looking for a long term romance.And of course that can go both ways.

Ladies, even in this new millennium, jumping into bed too quickly tells men that you're heaps of fun in the sack but not the sort of women they want to bring home and introduce to Mom and Dad.

When is the right time to go that extra step? That's difficult to say. Certainly do not try within the first one or two dates. Allow some time to get to know your dating partner before you move onto sex. If the time is right, you will know.

Putting it in perspective. With the first couple of dates, the answer is to allow time getting to know them. Give him or her enough opportunity to realize who you are.Talk,listen and be respectful. Don't forget that the person you are dating is probably just as nervous as yourself, so try to be forgiving if they make mistakes. They will probably be more likely to dismiss your little errors in return!
A first date should be light-hearted, cheerful, and enjoyable. So keep it pleasant and upbeat, you're so much more likely to have a return date and who knows? This first date might be the last first date and the start of something special! See you later.

Dating-relationship counseling-2013,

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As far as counseling services go,relationship counseling is one of the more popular services. A large percentage of couples will go to relationship counseling at some point in their relationship. Unfortunately many relationships fail & break ups occur without the couple really finding out what went wrong and how to fix it. Counselors that specialize in relationships can help you to overcome any problems that you are facing and have a stronger, happier relationship.

One fear that people have about counseling is that it may make them look like a failure that they need to see a counselor. Another fear is that counseling is a battle field where two partners blame each other and are just trying to win the battle with the counselor being the umpire. This isn't the case as counseling helps to develop communication within the relationship so that you can learn each other’s needs and make some compromises if required. You can't fix a failing relationship by continually blaming each other. Take the time to listen to what the other partner is saying and understand how they are feeling. When a couple has counseling they are in a controlled environment and they find that they can discuss matters without getting into a yelling match. The counselor sets guidelines for the conversation that will allow the couple to talk calmly to one another. Some counselors will help with the discussion by asking questions and getting involved with the discussion, while others will be more of a mediator just sitting on the sidelines and letting the couple talk things through themselves. Different approaches work for different couples while some respond well to talking themselves with a mediator supervising and others respond better to a guided discussion. When a conversation is guided then it shouldn't get out of hand and turn into a big argument. Counseling really can help couples to understand one another better and solve any issues that are tearing apart their relationship.

The first thing you will use counseling for is to address the issues that are threatening to tear apart the relationship. When you become stressed and emotional it can be difficult to see the problem clearly and often both you and your partner will look at the problem from your own view. You don't understand the other person's point of view and this is where counseling can help. Counseling will help you to identify any issues and work through them together. It will help you to develop an understanding of the other person's feelings and how the issues are affecting them. Some people, men in particular, thing that relationship counseling won't help them but they are very wrong as any relationship that is showing signs of trouble can be helped by some counseling. Counseling will help to improve communication which is a huge factor in having a good relationship. If you have good communication within your relationship then you may not need counseling to help you resolve your issues. But if you are among the high percentage of people without such good communication then counseling can really benefit you and your relationship.

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We know we have not been around for awhile but we're back and will start posting in a few days. A lot of personal changes slowed our whole operation.  Thanks for your support-"E" you soon :)

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Hey, how is everyone doing ? I know many have emailed and asked why we have not posted lately. Two of our members have gone thru a really bad situation and we are all banded together to help as much as we can.

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We all said that we would not say what has happened-so we won't. Things are getting back to normal and we will be posting soon.

Thanks for all the support and we will have some good things for you soon. Some changes are coming also that will put smiles on your faces.

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Everybody,thanks for everything

Disco queen for the dating scene-Donna Summer

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Disco queen for the dating scene-Donna Summer

Songs that make us smile or cry or fall in love tend to stick around for a long time because we can always hum the tune or remember when we were dancing to the beat or kissing on the seat. We remember dancing to Love to Love You Baby by Donna Summer and having a wonderful date.

We are truly sorry to hear of her passing on to a spiritual plane-but we know it's party time in heaven !

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - Disco queen Donna Summer, whose sultry voice and pulsing rhythms on hits like "Last Dance" and "Love to Love You Baby" defined the 1970s disco era, died of cancer on Thursday at age 63.

Summer, who won five Grammys and sold more than 130 million records worldwide, died surrounded by her family in Naples, Florida, publicist Brian Edwards said. He declined to specify what type of cancer caused her death.
"Early this morning, surrounded by family, we lost Donna Summer Sudano, a woman of many gifts, the greatest being her faith. While we grieve her passing, we are at peace celebrating her extraordinary life and her continued legacy," the singer's family said in a statement.
Summer had three children and married twice. Her second husband, musician Bruce Sudano, was at her bedside, Edwards said.
The music world swiftly paid tribute to Summer.
Gloria Gaynor, disco's other great diva, said Summer "forever changed ... how America danced and enjoyed themselves. She may have had her ‘Last Dance' here on earth, but ‘Heaven Knows' it is dancing with joy for her arrival."
Liza Minelli said, "We will be dancing to her music forever," and record producer Quincy Jones said her voice was "the heartbeat and soundtrack of a decade."
Born LaDonna Gaines in Boston, she made her debut as a church singer at age 10 and began her professional career in Germany at the age of 18, performing in the shows "Hair" and "Porgy and Bess" and working as a studio session singer.
But it wasn't until 1975 that she found fame with the breathy vocals and grinding beat of "Love to Love You Baby." The song was a huge hit in American and European nightclubs even though its overt sexuality made it controversial.
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Summer told Billboard magazine in a 2008 interview that she wasn't originally planning on singing that song herself.




"It was kind of a work in progress, and I thought that if I could get the right singer, it could be a hit. I had given Giorgio (Moroder, producer) the idea of 'Love to Love You Baby,' and he went into the studio and put a track to the idea and I went in and sang some words over it," she said.
"I didn't need a lot of words, so I oohed and aahed my way through it. I was imagining if Marilyn Monroe sang the song, that's what she would do," Summer told Billboard.
Summer followed up with a string of other disco tunes in the 1970s and into the mid-1980s, including "Last Dance," "Hot Stuff," "Bad Girls," "I Feel Love" and her cover version of the ballad "MacArthur Park," which was her first No. 1 record in the United States in 1978.
Barbra Streisand, who recorded the 1979 duet "No More Tears (Enough is Enough)" with Summer said on Thursday, "She had an amazing voice and was so talented...It's so sad."

In 1983, Summer scored a massive hit with "She Works Hard for the Money," as she sought to branch out of the disco genre.

Throughout her career, Summer had 32 hit singles on the Billboard Hot 100, including four No. 1s.
Summer's recording success declined in the 1990s, after she embraced Christianity and released songs like "I Believe in Jesus." But her last studio album, "Crayons" in 2008, produced three dance club hits with "I'm a Fire," "Stamp Your Feet" and "Fame."
In 2009, Summer sang at the Nobel Peace Prize concert in Norway in 2009 in honor of Nobel laureate U.S. President Barack Obama. She also made guest appearances in the last three years on TV shows "America's Got Talent" and "Platinum Hit."

Her most recent hit was the 2010 single "To Paris With Love."

Her family asked on Thursday that fans make donations in Summer's honor to the Salvation Army.

(Reporting by Piya Sinha-Roy and Alex Dobuzinskis; Editing by Bob Tourtellotte and Cynthia Osterman)

Honeymoon celebrity dating goodies

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Honeymoon celebrity dating goodies

Angelina Jolie-Brad Pitt-Drew Barrymore-Britney Spears-Jessica Biel-Justin Timberlake-Halle Barry-Kate Hudson-Anne Hathaway

Justin timberlake

Brad Pitt

Angelina Jolie

Britney Spears

Drew Barrymore

Jessica Biel

Well summer is coming and the living is easy. The stars of heaven and the stars of Hollywood that we know of like Angelina Jolie-Brad Pitt, Drew Barrymore, Britney Spears, Jessica Biel will be getting hitched-also possibly- Hallie Berry,Kate Hudson and Anne Hathaway

That is the possibility- that all of the above named stars will be stars with other stars when they get married this summer. 

Of course not everything is confirmed yet but we do know that there are several engagements and of course the one that everybody talks about Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. Wouldn't it be something if all of them got married on the same day ?

Entertainment media would of course be waiting to see what type of dress and what type of diamonds and what type of  hats and shoes people would be wearing and of course usually after everyone sees what stars are wearing they go out and buy a copy- right ? right ! 

People get more interested when they feel that they're part of something like seeing photos or hearing information about what's happening behind the closed doors or playing like they're on the waiting list to get their invite or what guest eat,who danced with who - so we're telling you now, get ready to follow TV and the net as it broadcasts who is doing what. 

In case you didn't know Brad Pitt would be marrying Angelina Jolie, Drew Barrymore would be marrying Will Koppelman, Britney Spears will be marrying Jason Trawick, Jessica Biel would be marrying Justin Timberlake. 

We're not exactly sure when Kate Hudson, Hallie and Hathaway are going to be popped with the question but when we find out, we will let you know. 

Anne Hathaway

Kate Hudson

Halle Berry

Remember with Brad and Angelina they say there is a 50% chance this summer, Drew and Will maybe 99% ,with Britney and Jason around 70%, Jessica and Justin possibly 98% so wedding bells can

possibly be heard all thru the summer. 

Still we won't know until that 100% time when they say "I DO"

We have first-timers such as Jessica Beale and Justin Timberlake–we have third timers such as Hallie Berry and Britney Spears.

We wish them all the best and hope that all their future dates with each other are wonderful and full of love.

Lady Gaga and her boyfriend

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Lady Gaga and her boyfriend   

Is it possible to "work" so hard that you no longer want the "play-the love-the dating-the kissing"-All work and no play-is a sad state of affairs.
Well that's what has started to happen to the dating Lady GaGa and her boyfriend Taylor Kinnery. Seems like a few sources say that Kin was "too cool" while Lady Gaga wanted him to be "hot"-well at least "warm" when around her-you know a little adoration for her situation. She wanted some attention for her conviction. Some cheers for her career. 
Maybe she liked his "don't care" attitude at first meeting-like "Hey you're Lady Gaga,yea nice to meet you." but we guess that soon needed to be "Wow wowy ohh baby you're my engine for attention."
Of course others in her camp said her big show and career needs a lot of her attention and care so sometimes the focus is totally on that.
Men just remember that sometimes you have to realize that your lady,your main squeeze,your real deal,your sweetie pie has to be the apple of your eye. Why ? Because !
Right ladies ? I thought so.
Come back soon. Be sure to have fun with our other posts also.
Several fun changes are coming soon. Stay cool&sexy-even if just for yourself. 

Dating-try something different

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One of the most awkward dating experiences we've heard about came from Dan – yes our Dan. Remember in Dating advice 2 ,we said Dan was going on a date. Well, take a wild guess what they did on their first date. 

Went traveling to Wisconsin Dells to have fun,no. Went on a trip to California to see the marvels of the west coast. No, teamed up with other couples to go to a paradise for 2.no.  

They ended up driving through the city – you ready for this? And looked at the top of buildings from high floors of other buildings. May seem nutty but hey !!!!

That's right, they went "building gazing". I just made up that phrase so I claim the copyright.

Dan said they had a wonderful date together and a lot of fun.He said there was lots of interesting architecture and some weird statues he wish he could have gotten pics of-like what looked like a bird sitting on a man's head. 

She had never done anything like that before-(yes we are sure of that),so he was her first – at "building gazing", that is!

He got the idea when he was at work. His office is on the 30th floor and he sees top of buildings from the window. There is so much beautiful carving and architecture at top of buildings, that you will never see while walking past. 

That seems stupid to put all the hard work and beauty at the top of the building, up in the air where people can't see it. Since the people walking by are only 5 or 6 feet tall,they never think of looking at the top of the building they are passing- a real waste.

Anyway, that surprised her and luckily she was open to different ideas about going out on a date. You see like we said in "How to tell", dates come in all flavors. Sometimes you just have to go with the tide and see if you end up on paradise island or dead man's bluff.

Dan said she was just as fascinated as he was with what they saw. They went to about 12 different places to ride the elevators to the top floors where they could see some rooftops.

Every time we think about this and read it over it makes us laugh

Seems like he and she have somewhat the same attitude toward dating so it worked out fine.

We ended up meeting her later and saw that she was just crazy as he is. We figure everything will work out just fine. And I'm pretty sure we will hear about her again.

Dan is not a one nighter like we mentioned in "Dating advice about beautiful women-part2".

He likes to be with one lady at a time and get and give love.

We wish them the best in his test to the bequest his kisses upon her breast-ha ha-have fun dating.

We'll see you soon.

If you have some crazy dates,let us know so we can share your laughs (or tears).

EXTREME DATING/EXTREME LOVE

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EXTREME DATING/EXTREME LOVE  

Comparing speed dating to speed singing. I remember when I was playing music with a group in Chicago Illinois. This particular night we had three gigs( musical shows) for that one night.

The 1st date started at 7 PM until 9 PM, on the "south" side – we had to unload the equipment,set it up, do a sound check and then do the gig. After that we had to pack the equipment take it out to the van, load the van,then drive downtown, which is the "north" side.

Once we got to the second date,we had to unload, unpack, set up again then start at 10:30 PM until midnight. After the second gig, we had to do all the same thing: packing up the equipment, loading it and then drive to 3500 W. Madison("west" side) start again at 1 AM until 3:30 AM.

Luckily with the last gig, we had the help of a police friend that one of our players knew, otherwise we would've gotten several tickets trying to get there. 

That is what we call 100% pure example of EXTREME the only difference is this was extreme gig-otometry ( a new word I made up). I must admit,when we pulled up with that police escort, it was impressive but we were dog tired and hardly remembered what we had planned to play. We did a lot of and ad-lib playing and solos but it worked out okay.

My point, is that all this "extreme" junk doesn't work with many things at all. All it does is  make you tired and many times you end up with nothing worthwhile.

I'm sure you see examples of clubs doing this quick dating stuff where you have a minute to 3 min. to "express impress" for a date or become the King or Queen of extreme dating and the other person is supposed to know who they want to be with in that minute.

Come on people, are we becoming TV dinner and microwave popcorn people – where everything is ready in a minute?

All this rush rush rush and extreme=for what? 

TAKE YOUR TIME,LIVE LOVE & BE LOVED    

You meet someone for the first time, let's say on January 1st, do you really expect that person to be in love with you by January 15 or even January 31 ?

No we're not saying that is impossible but it is highly unlikely that that will happen. 

Take your time and get to know the person. You're not in a race to fall in love. 

Love happens "when and if" it happens at all. You have to let love happen to you, it can't be forced.

Be open to love, of course always be careful like we mentioned in, "your-date,who-are-they" and always keep your thinking cap on so you know what's happening with whoever you're with. 

Become ready to love and be loved as we spoke about in."how to tell if guy-girl likes you" .

Let love happen by not pressuring yourself or others. The more relaxed you are, the better. 

Then your senses are more aware of good or bad and can give you the right signal to either stick or a warning to go.

Hopefully your signals will be the "sticking" one's like we mentioned in "69 ways to date & find true love" . Thanks for "sticking" with us-come back soon. Leave your info at the bottom-some real good freebies are coming. Remember married or single,you can still date and have a good time.

AnastasiaDate-Beautiful Ladies Russian,Ukraine,Asian,South American,African

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Surf the wave of New Year cheer on AmoLatina-Latin Datingas exquisite Ladies launch into a summertime period of music, dance and parades. Meet spirited Latinas in Live Chat and discover first-hand how Latin America’s carnival season thrives throughout January and February.

Ask Colombian Ladies more about the dynamic Carnival de Barranquilla which takes place from 18-21 February. Warm-up events run from January 20 and the party features stunning outfits,a beautiful carnival queen,parade of floats,folklore dances and cumbia,fandango and other Latin grooves.

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Discover a flamboyant 40-day celebration with the beautiful women of Uruguay as they enjoy the Carnival of Montevideo from January 27. And tap into the joy of Argentina for the Gualeguaychu Carnival that sparks infectious rhythms and vigorous dancing every Saturday from January 7 to March 3.

The Year of the Dragon is upon you. Beautiful Asian ladies celebrate the most important of all Chinese holidays, New Year’s, January 23, breathes in good luck for all. Celebrated throughout China, Hong Kong, Macau, Malaysia, the Philippines, Taiwan and Thailand.

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AfricaBeauties.com gorgeous lovely African Dating has just introduced a host of new features to take dating an African Lady to the next level. The site now wows visitors with much larger thumbnails and images of all scintillating African Ladies.Mini videos on the home page reveals potential African dating matches.
Anastasia offers premium romance tour packages to some of the world’s most exotic destinations where her members meet beautiful single women for love, romance and long-term commitment. For years they have helped pair single men with some of the loveliest and most exquisite women in the world.

Offices in Russia and America,AnastasiaDate provides great value to worldwide clientele.Since 1993 AnastasiaDate’s Romance Tours have achieved world notoriety and are eagerly attended by the most beautiful women in Russia and Ukraine,together with South America,Africa and Asia.
One of the most useful features of the thrilling upgrade is the addition of ‘NEW’ icons that indicate which fresh beauties have just been added to the AfricaBeauties database.
And for those who use the popular dating tool Live Chat, communication is even easier with the addition of a light-hearted set of smilies to liven-up real-time messages. To cap this major website revamp, members now also have access to a romantic range of Virtual Gifts to make an even more passionate impact on their beloved. They can send and receive vibrant gifts in the form of diamond rings,juicy strawberries or a rose.

Date an international beauty,see the world and be happy

69 ways to date & find true love

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Unfortunately the first 68 don't matter. But number 69 – aahh, that's the one that really truly counts in dating. Here it is…no it's not what you're thinking. I can see some of you getting all excited (especially Mary & Bob,our "Magnificent Dating Machine" in Texas!) because you thought we were going to talk about "69".

ANYWAY, number 69 is that... You must be ready to "love and be loved".

Some people who date ,as we stated in  romance & the dating dance  just want to go out and unfortunately it doesn't matter with who.

But dating for love..aahh yes-Love is a feeling that takes time to form. You have heard of "love at first sight" ?Well,is that really love? Doubtful, since they know nothing about each other, 

never dated, 

never kissed, 

never spent dating time together. 

they hardly know each others name

Would you think that was love ?-hope not!

Now it could be "lust"(looking at just the body sexually) at first sight or a chemical balance that draws the couple together some magnetic way-like being with a person that you have just met but seeming like you two have known each other for years-those things do happen often.

Love has to go through many tests and qualifications before it gets its crown of glory. For instance, what are your likes, dislikes,

is the person sloppy or clean,

are they as smart as you think, 

do they want to be on your side in life or just for themselves, 

is this just a quick fling for them or are they out looking for a nice long relationship,

is there anything that they do that really gets on your nerve and could you stand it permanently, 

which of you have the dominant attitude and would that get in the way,

do they like to kiss-do you, do they like to hug – do you,

are they serious or funny and does that fit you?

See, this is just something to think about. This is why we say "love at first sight", no we don't think it's love-maybe just "lust" at first sight. Attraction to a person's physical nature happens whenever we walk down the street or watch tv. 

Of course we do have that magical, strong chemical fairy dust that sometimes lands on us and makes us nutty and un-reasonable.

Or is it just that you have finally come to the point that you are ready to "love and be loved".You are ready to tear down the walls and barriers and let that chemical fairy  dust land all over your body, mind and soul to see if happiness can turn it into that wonderful feeling of love-that magic number 69, that feeling of make-believe, that giddy, giggly victory feeling in your stomach that – well you get the idea ! That's a feeling we all want to have-right? Right!

Talk to us – tell us what love is for you or tell us the last time you fell in lust or about your "69" moment – ha :-) !

Have some dating fun in life and enjoy. Come back soon,be sure to "follow & link" to us and keep up with everything.

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Dating-Desperate Housewife style

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Just to prove that dating is the thing to do,a friend that you may know is about to begin a show you'll like.
Eva Longoria created the concept for the series herself.The show will enlist the expertise of celebrity matchmakers Steve Ward from VH1's "Tough Love" and Amber Kelleher, who owns an elite dating company.

The "Desperate Housewives" star is developing a prime-time dating show for single women around that country that NBC is tentatively calling "All About Love."

Eva is finding the silver-lining in her messy break-up with NBA star Tony Parker to help women in the post-breakup funk take another shot at finding love.

"It's designed to help real women get back into the dating pool," a source told Us magazine. "They've chosen single women and single mothers -- women who have been through a series of heartaches and battles in life and have all but given up on finding one true love." The show aims to help everyday women get back into the dating scene following ugly breakups.

This time, the beautiful actress will be playing matchmaker as the producer of a prime-time dating show. info from Huffington Post

Dating in tinseltown

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Hey folks,how are you doing! We know that sometimes when people get a little fame or money-they sometimes change for the better...or worse-so we thought we would give you some of the latest dating news from tinseltown-you won't believe it or maybe you will.

DEMI Moore's estranged husband, actor Ashton Kutcher, has reportedly been having a secret romance with pop singer Rihanna for the past eight weeks.
The 24-year-old Rihanna first hit if off with Kutcher, who stars in Two and a Half Men, at a mutual freind's house party in Los Angeles last December, reported The Sun.
Rihanna is reportedly so besotted with Kutcher, 34, that she has asked about joining his Kabbalah group.
Rihanna and Ashton, who subscribes to the mystical religion, have been meeting up for a series of late-night trysts after the singer returned to LA to record her latest album.
She dropped in at his mansion around midnight on Thursday and stayed for four hours before being taken away in a car.
"The flirting began as soon as Rihanna and Ashton met and swapped numbers. That moved on to texts and arranging to meet. They snuck off to a Santa Monica hotel a few weeks ago," a source told The Sun.

"They are two single people having a fling, so thought it would be best to meet in secret.
"Rihanna has told friends he's funny and cute. Both of them love a good time and think they're too busy for anything serious just yet. She's starting to enquire about Kabbalah sessions with his rabbi."
Ashton has been single since November when actress ex Demi Moore filed for divorce after party girl Sara Leal said she'd had sex with him on their sixth wedding anniversary.

This was from News.com.au
Well we hope that things turn out well for all. We want everyone to live life lovingly and have fun dating. Maybe that's what is happening--right? Right! OK stay cool and come back soon.Have something you want to comment about-please do. Thanks

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LOVELAND again again

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We showed you some of the "wild & crazy" sexual creations at "loveland" -well here's more-ENJOY! Dating is fun-we keep it that way-tell your friends about us and link to us=thanks. We have a few more sexy pics coming in 3 days-stay tuned.

12 foot soldiers-protecting your right to date freely

4 men-seems like their date is over

what the future of dating is coming to-no we hope not!

triple fun for all :)

what would YOU call this? a pointer? a penis? a place 2 go?

loveland waterpark

the date is about to start

Please return soon,we have a lot of fun dating info going up.