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EXTREME DATING/EXTREME LOVE
Comparing speed dating to speed singing. I remember when I was playing music with a group in Chicago Illinois. This particular night we had three gigs( musical shows) for that one night.
The 1st date started at 7 PM until 9 PM, on the "south" side – we had to unload the equipment,set it up, do a sound check and then do the gig. After that we had to pack the equipment take it out to the van, load the van,then drive downtown, which is the "north" side.
Once we got to the second date,we had to unload, unpack, set up again then start at 10:30 PM until midnight. After the second gig, we had to do all the same thing: packing up the equipment, loading it and then drive to 3500 W. Madison("west" side) start again at 1 AM until 3:30 AM.
Luckily with the last gig, we had the help of a police friend that one of our players knew, otherwise we would've gotten several tickets trying to get there.
That is what we call 100% pure example of EXTREME the only difference is this was extreme gig-otometry ( a new word I made up). I must admit,when we pulled up with that police escort, it was impressive but we were dog tired and hardly remembered what we had planned to play. We did a lot of and ad-lib playing and solos but it worked out okay.
My point, is that all this "extreme" junk doesn't work with many things at all. All it does is make you tired and many times you end up with nothing worthwhile.
I'm sure you see examples of clubs doing this quick dating stuff where you have a minute to 3 min. to "express impress" for a date or become the King or Queen of extreme dating and the other person is supposed to know who they want to be with in that minute.
Come on people, are we becoming TV dinner and microwave popcorn people – where everything is ready in a minute?
All this rush rush rush and extreme=for what?
TAKE YOUR TIME,LIVE LOVE & BE LOVED
You meet someone for the first time, let's say on January 1st, do you really expect that person to be in love with you by January 15 or even January 31 ?
No we're not saying that is impossible but it is highly unlikely that that will happen.
Take your time and get to know the person. You're not in a race to fall in love.
Love happens "when and if" it happens at all. You have to let love happen to you, it can't be forced.
Be open to love, of course always be careful like we mentioned in, "your-date,who-are-they" and always keep your thinking cap on so you know what's happening with whoever you're with.
Become ready to love and be loved as we spoke about in."how to tell if guy-girl likes you" .
Let love happen by not pressuring yourself or others. The more relaxed you are, the better.
Then your senses are more aware of good or bad and can give you the right signal to either stick or a warning to go.
Hopefully your signals will be the "sticking" one's like we mentioned in "69 ways to date & find true love" . Thanks for "sticking" with us-come back soon. Leave your info at the bottom-some real good freebies are coming. Remember married or single,you can still date and have a good time.
